Feeling so Thankful… More Pics too!

I have to say it was nice to really take a few days off this weekend and spend it with family. I LOVE Thanksgiving because I always get to see relatives that I haven’t seen in a while. But the past few days off has also given me time to reflect on how thankful I feel for people around me¬†that have been supportive over the past two years on this adventure.

thanksgivingHow many of us could try to achieve our dreams without amazing people in our lives encouraging us? I feel incredibly lucky right now in my life and can’t wait to see where I am next Thanksgiving!

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PS- Bet you thought I was going to put more pics of the school… coming tomorrow! ūüôā

Learning Curve and Being an Adult Perfectionist

With everything in life, there is a learning curve. As I have been doing research on gifted children the past few years, one characteristic comes up quite a bit- perfectionism. I think I am going to self-diagnose myself with this problem and come clean. I am a perfectionist (if you have worked with me or been in class with me, I am so sorry. I bet I was annoying) and I am admitting it. So starting a blog is one way I am working to deal with my problem. I can’t be perfect in this adventure (and it is ok, it is ok, it is ok…) but I am trying. One step at a time, right?! I am sure if you follow this blog, you ¬†might be annoyed as I change colors or layouts trying to find the “right” one for me.

By the way, here is a great article for any other adult perfectionists. I will continue to write on this topic because it is a very personal subject for me.

http://www.anxietybc.com/sites/default/files/Perfectionism.pdf

My personal favorite is this one:

Looking at the big picture
Adults with perfectionism tend to get bogged down in details and spend a lot of
time worrying about ‚ÄĚthe little things‚ÄĚ (e.g., what font to use in an email). One
helpful strategy to worry less about details is to ask yourself the following
questions:
1. Does it really matter?
2. What is the worst that could happen?
3. If the worst does happen, can I survive it?
4. Will this still matter tomorrow? How about next week? Next year?

Here are a few more tips that I really don’t know if I could do! (My attempt today and working through the perfectionism- I could not figure out why the layout is messed up in my blog post but I am going to let it go…)

Here are some examples to help you brainstorm items for exposure practice:

  • Show up for an appointment 15 minutes late
  • Leave a visible area in the house a little messy
    Tell people when you are tired (or other feelings that you consider it a weakness to have)
  • Wear a piece of clothing that has a visible stain on it
  • Purposely allow several uncomfortable silences to occur during lunch with a co-worker
    Purposely be a few cents short for bus fare
  • Lose your train of thought during a presentation
  • Send a letter or e-mail that includes a few mistakes
    Talk at a meeting without first rehearsing what you are going to say in your head
    Try a new restaurant without first researching how good it is

 

Picture from: http://www.flourishover50.com/wp-content/uploads/perfectionist.jpg

What?! I am blogging?!

Welcome everyone! I was recently convinced to start a blog for our school and I think this might be the toughest thing for me so far. I do not view myself as a good writer or that I really have that much to say.  I guess I will find out. I have learned to attempt new things and just see what happens. The worst that can happen with a blog is that I am really not creative/talented and I stop. But my new mantra is that I have to try and recognize that not everyone is going to like what I believe or what I have to say!

I am going to try to concentrate on writing about academically gifted children, parenting gifted children, personal experiences, school information, and a little bit of topics that interest me. I hope you enjoy the blog and wish me luck!Wake-Gifted-Logo-long-color-CMYK