Why do children feel ashamed to be gifted?
Why is there such a social stigma about children (or adults) being gifted?
Why does a parent have to hide this trait or tell their children to keep it to themselves?
But why do we say “Maybe they will grow up to be a lawyer or a doctor”?
Why do we say we value education… but only if everyone fits the normal mold?
I recently heard a parent tell me that someone was debating our school because the word “gifted” was in the name. It was not the first time I have heard this comment and I am sure it won’t be the last. But every time I hear that, it makes me sad because parents are ashamed their child is “gifted”. Wonder how that child feels? Wonder how they will perceive their abilities as they grow up?
Would this be the same parental attitude if the child was naturally a talented athlete verses being a talented student academically?
Thank you Julie E. Creech for this amazing perspective on how it feels to be gifted. Maybe it will provide insight for people that don’t understand.